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Human behaviour is fascinating!

John Angeletta explains why relationships can go wrong

Get a relationship right and it blossoms. Get it wrong and it can become a tragedy.

Behaviour has been studied and recorded for more than 2,000 years and impacts - for good or otherwise - on each of us, everyday.

It is both science and art.

Science, because it is observable and repeatable. Art, because we can experience it, modify it and enjoy it.

When I speak of 'behaviour', I mean the way we go about doing things, the way we respond to others, the world and everything within it.

As human beings we have emotions; we 'feel'. And, when we feel, we act appropriately or re-act inappropriately: so do your family members, your friends and, your boss - everyone!

As someone critical to the effectiveness of a 'boss', your greater understanding of behaviour will complement.

You will be more effective because you are 'managing' your own and your boss's behaviour more appropriately.

And, when you are both happier, more will get done.

Ask yourself these simple questions:

Why do some people ...?
• Say a glass is half-empty...
• See the same glass and say its half-full...
• Say, "That glass is the wrong size"...
• Or, "I'm not washing up"

Why is it that some people ...?
• Are very task orientated...
• Or, more people orientated...
• Like a hare...
• Or, like a tortoise.

Why do some people come over as ...?
• Dominant and Demanding
• Interactive and Inspirational
• Sentimental and Shy
• Cautious and Contemplative

There are 16-classic personality types out there in the world and you possess the traits for just one of them.

Personality Trait Combinations

by job description

D

Absolutist

D/I

Manager 

I/D

Persuasive

I

Showperson

D/C

Complex

D/S

Lecturer

I/C

Teacher

I/S

Diplomat

C/D

Researcher

C/I

Doctor

S/D

Investigator

S/I

Counsellor

C

Analyst

C/S

Specialist

S/C

Accountant

S

Supporter


Your boss, your spouse/partner, your family and friends possess their personal trait, too.

Think of the greater harmony at work, home and play that will abound when you know where you are coming from and, can recognize and accommodate others, too.

 

Contact John to find out more .....